Funeral & Cremation FAQs
By Bravo Family Mortuary Staff, Licensed Funeral Director·Last reviewed March 2026
Quick Answer
Below you'll find 20 of the most common questions we hear from families — organized by topic and answered honestly by our licensed funeral directors. If your question isn't here, call us anytime at 1-833-762-7286.
Cremation
How does cremation work?
The body is placed in a cremation container and exposed to high heat (1,400–1,800 °F) for 2–3 hours. Afterward, the remaining bone fragments are processed into a fine powder — what families receive as 'cremated remains' or 'ashes.' The entire process typically takes 3–5 business days from the time of death.
Can I witness the cremation?
Yes. Many families find comfort in being present when the cremation begins. Bravo Family Mortuary accommodates witness cremations — you can hold a brief prayer or moment of silence as the process starts. Let us know when making arrangements and we'll coordinate the details.
Can I still have a viewing before cremation?
Absolutely. A viewing or visitation can take place before cremation, allowing family and friends to say goodbye in person. Embalming may be recommended depending on timing, but is not always required. We can arrange a private family viewing or a larger public visitation.
What can I do with cremated remains?
Families have many options: keep the remains in a decorative urn at home, inter them in a columbarium niche, scatter them at sea (with proper permits), place them in a cemetery plot, or divide them into keepsake urns for multiple family members. We can also arrange for cremation jewelry that holds a small amount of ashes.
Is cremation more affordable than burial?
Generally, yes. Direct cremation starts at a lower price point because it doesn't require embalming, a casket, or a burial plot. However, when you add a memorial service, urn, and other options, costs can vary. We provide transparent pricing so you can compare options — visit our pricing page for current rates.
Burial & Services
What is the difference between a funeral and a memorial service?
A funeral service is held with the body present (in a casket, open or closed). A memorial service is held without the body — typically after cremation or when the burial has already taken place. Both can be personalized with readings, music, eulogies, and religious or cultural traditions.
Do I need to buy a casket from the funeral home?
No. Federal law (the FTC Funeral Rule) gives you the right to purchase a casket from any supplier — online retailers, warehouse stores, or independent sellers — and the funeral home must accept it with no additional handling fee. We're happy to help you compare options.
Is embalming required by law?
No. California law does not require embalming. It may be recommended if there will be a public viewing or if the service is delayed, but refrigeration is an acceptable alternative. We'll explain your options clearly so you can make the choice that feels right.
Can I personalize the funeral service?
Yes — and we encourage it. From photo displays and video tributes to favorite music, themed decorations, and even food from a loved one's favorite restaurant, a personalized service creates a more meaningful tribute. Our staff will help you brainstorm and execute your ideas.
What is a celebration of life?
A celebration of life focuses on honoring how someone lived rather than mourning their death. These gatherings are often less formal, may include storytelling, music, food, and activities that reflect the person's passions. They can take place at our facility, a park, a beach, or any meaningful location.
Planning & Logistics
What should I do immediately after someone dies?
If the death occurs at home with hospice, the hospice nurse will guide you. Otherwise, call 911. Once the death has been pronounced, contact a funeral home — we're available 24/7 at 1-833-762-7286. We'll arrange transportation, help you notify family, and walk you through next steps at your pace.
How soon do I need to make arrangements?
There's no legal deadline, but most families begin making arrangements within 24–48 hours. California law requires that a body be embalmed or refrigerated within 24 hours if it won't be buried or cremated promptly. We'll handle the logistics so you can focus on your family.
What documents do I need to bring?
Helpful documents include: the deceased's Social Security number, birth certificate, military discharge papers (DD-214) if applicable, marriage certificate, life insurance policies, and a recent photo for the death certificate. Don't worry if you can't locate everything right away — we'll work with what you have.
Can I pre-plan my own funeral?
Yes, and it's one of the most thoughtful gifts you can give your family. Pre-planning lets you make decisions on your own terms, lock in today's prices, and spare your loved ones from difficult choices during grief. Visit our pre-planning page or call us to schedule a no-pressure conversation.
How many death certificates should I order?
We typically recommend 10–15 certified copies. You'll need them for banks, insurance companies, the DMV, Social Security, real estate transfers, and retirement accounts. It's easier and less expensive to order extras upfront than to request additional copies later.
Costs & Financial
How much does a funeral cost in San Diego?
Costs vary widely based on the type of service. Direct cremation can start around $1,000–$2,000, while a full traditional burial with viewing and service may range from $5,000–$12,000+. We publish our prices online and provide itemized quotes — no hidden fees, no pressure.
Does insurance or Social Security help pay for a funeral?
Life insurance proceeds can be assigned to the funeral home to cover costs. Social Security provides a one-time $255 death benefit to eligible survivors. Some families also qualify for county assistance or veterans' burial benefits. We'll help you understand your options — see our Social Security benefits guide for details.
What is the FTC Funeral Rule?
The Federal Trade Commission's Funeral Rule requires funeral homes to provide an itemized General Price List (GPL), allow you to choose only the services you want, accept caskets purchased elsewhere, and give pricing information over the phone. It protects consumers from being pressured into unnecessary purchases.
Can I make payments over time?
We understand that funeral costs can be unexpected. While policies vary, we can discuss payment options during your arrangement conference. Some families use life insurance assignments, crowdfunding, or community assistance programs. Our goal is to help you honor your loved one without added financial stress.
Why are funeral costs so different between providers?
Pricing differences come from facility overhead, service inclusions, location, and whether you're working with a corporate chain or a family-owned firm. Corporate funeral homes often have higher overhead costs. At Bravo Family Mortuary, we keep pricing transparent and competitive because we believe every family deserves dignified care regardless of budget.
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